Mediation Bumper Stickers

My last blog about divorce bumper stickers lead to me to check for mediation bumper stickers. I found the following:

Mediate Don’t Litigate (I always wondered where this phrase came from. The above picture explains it was Einstein!)
Trust Me, I’m a Mediator
I Love Mediators
I am in Training to be a Mediator
Real Men Become Mediators
Peace Love Mediation
Eat Sleep Mediation
Mediators Kick Ass
Let’s Talk About Mediation
Mediators Rule
Mediators Do it until Everyone Is Satisfied
Mediators Do it in Separate Rooms
Mediators Do it with a Flip Chart
Mediators Do it with an Assistant
Mediators Do it Consensually
Mediators Do it Confidentially
Mediators Won't Tell Anyone about it Afterwards
Mediators Won't Do it for You, but They'll Help You Do it for Yourself

There seems to be a difference between divorce bumper stickers and mediation bumper stickers that follow the differences between litigated divorced and mediated divorces. In general the mediation bumper stickers talk about how great mediators are and less about the process. The last few are sexual in a cute way.
Let me know if you have seen some other mediation bumper stickers.
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Divorce Bumper Stickers

As I was driving today, I saw a bumper sticker which said "I Love My Wife. It made me think, are there divorce bumper stickers? As always, I googled "divorce bumper stickers." Above are some of the bumper stickers I found online.
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Divorce Handbook

Wouldn’t it be great if marriages came with instructions, rules or a handbook? Arizona actually has a booklet called the "Marriage Handbook." You can get it online at https://www.azdes.gov/marriage/pdf/PPP-1038AHBPPD.pdf or in person at the court service centers. As is often the case, I did not realize how many such publications existed until I Googled "Divorce Handbook" and got 16,700 hits. Now I wonder what is the impact of these books? Unfortunately, it does not seem to be much. This made me wonder how can you educate people about divorce and if you can at all. People do not seem to be interested in a topic until it directly effects them and by then it is often too late. What do you think?

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Out of Control Divorces

Connecticut seems to get more than its share of out of control divorces. I don’t know if it is its proximity to New York or something else but as a former "Nutmegger" or that I know most of the attorneys or that I am a Huskie basketball fan, I am still fascinated. The latest is the Douglas-David vs. David divorce. It has gotten lots of headlines because of the Wife’s claim that she needs $53,000 per week alimony and the $43,000,000 prenuptial agreement is not enough. She wants more of the $329 million.

Most people don’t realize how public the divorce docket is. You can go to http://civilinquiry.jud.ct.gov/DispDetail.asp?DocNum=HHD-FA-07-4032144-S And see all the motions filed on the case. It is amazing in a case like this how many motions have been filed. There were 82 docket entries from August 2007 to March of 2009. There are seven appearances by attorneys or law firms.

Tracey Cohen wrote about the divorce at http://www.walletpop.com/blog/2009/03/19/could-you-live-on-53-000-a-week/?icid
She said, "It's hard for to feel sorry for a woman who is receiving a $43 million divorce settlement, and is still claiming that she can't possibly survive on such a small sum of money. Marie Douglas-David and former investment banker George David are getting a divorce, and of course, fighting over the money. His net worth is estimated at $329 million. They were married in 2002, and for doing less than 7 years of hard time, Marie wants a lump sum of $100 million and $130,000 a month alimony. That's $1.56 million a year in alimony, plus that nice chunk of change up front. The problem is that in 2005, in the middle of the marriage (after they had a number of break-ups and reconciliations), Marie signed an agreement saying she'd get $43 million when they divorced. Of course, George is a heartless bastard who clearly wants her to starve, because she can't possibly live on only $43 million! The 36 year-old says her weekly expenses are over $53,000, and those must be paid! The weekly expenses include maintaining four homes (one on Park Avenue, one in Sweden), $4,500 of clothing, $1,000 for hair and skin treatments, $8,000 for travel, and more."

I often wonder if a case like this could have been mediated. What do you think?

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